Difficult Decision
11 Oct
David made the difficult decision to step down as a deacon at our church. Hopefully it will be a short leave of absence until the Humira starts working and his arthritis is in remission. We’ve been praying about this for months.
It’s tough for David, not being able to serve at full capacity. Sometimes he’d serve at church and fight through the pain only to be wiped out for days afterwards. We are not certain why, but Sundays are David’s worst days. Maybe it’s the week catching up with him.
It’s been hard on me not being able to discuss the situation until David spoke with our elders. It just didn’t feel right to tell anyone, “Hey, I don’t think David should be a deacon anymore.” Maybe that’s weird or wrong. It just felt like it would have been complaining or gossiping.
Our elders have been so kind and gracious. They’ve really done an excellent job handling our situation, and we are so blessed to have godly church leadership. I was especially impressed that they made a point of telling our congregation that it was David’s decision. No one in the church asked David to resign because of his health. We are proud to say our church clearly does not discriminate because of disability!
This was a very difficult decision for us. Thank you all for your prayers, and a huge thank you to our church for bearing our burdens with Christ-like love.
My grandfather was a deacon his whole life. It sounds like your husband made the right decision. Church is such an accepting community! Good for you two!!
First of all, I know this had to be a truly difficult decision, but I think you made the right one. We need to take care of ourselves or else we won’t be ABLE to serve others. I’m SO THRILLED your church was supportive, as well. I’ve had much the opposite reaction in the past.
I pray, too, that the Humira will kick in soon, and that David is back to serving when he is comfortable doing so.
Love ya!
Kerri
No shame in taking a break. It’s not fun to go through burnout and force yourself to serve just because. Glad you guys have the support of leadership. Take time to heal, to rest and to laugh.
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