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		<title>By: Brandy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brandy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Oct 2009 13:41:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Happy SITS Saturday Sharefest

What an amazing story, I am proud of you for keeping your relationship strong and moving forward together through these tough times. You both look just as happy in the 1st picture as you do in the last one, thank you for sharing this story as I am sure it will help so many to move forward in many situations similar to yours!

((HUGS))</description>
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<p>What an amazing story, I am proud of you for keeping your relationship strong and moving forward together through these tough times. You both look just as happy in the 1st picture as you do in the last one, thank you for sharing this story as I am sure it will help so many to move forward in many situations similar to yours!</p>
<p>((HUGS))</p>
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		<title>By: Young Wife</title>
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		<dc:creator>Young Wife</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2009 22:07:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kim, thank you so much for your prayers and encouragement!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kim, thank you so much for your prayers and encouragement!</p>
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		<title>By: Kim</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2009 16:52:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ashley,
  I have you and your husband lifted up in prayer. I know through my own experience that God will see you through and always provide for you. I understand that it is hard to ask for and accept help, I have a special needs child and now my own physical limitations. I was very self reliant, as my husband was deployed often in the military and I was determined to handle everything. Well, I have been humbled and I know God has other plans for me. God&#039;s richest blessings to you and your husband ! 
Kim :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ashley,<br />
  I have you and your husband lifted up in prayer. I know through my own experience that God will see you through and always provide for you. I understand that it is hard to ask for and accept help, I have a special needs child and now my own physical limitations. I was very self reliant, as my husband was deployed often in the military and I was determined to handle everything. Well, I have been humbled and I know God has other plans for me. God&#8217;s richest blessings to you and your husband !<br />
Kim <img src='http://youngwifestale.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Craig</title>
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		<dc:creator>Craig</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 May 2009 09:59:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Ashley, 

I really understand what it is like to have health problems at the start of your marriage. I had Chronic Fatigue Syndrome for the first 5 years of our marriage. It was also extremely debilitating for long periods, we know what it is like to miss out on many of the &#039;normal&#039; activities. God is faithful and it is when you really need him that you learn that you can really trust him in EVERYTHING, as you guys are learning. 

My wife saw your post on the Christians with chronic illness carnival and forced (read gently encouraged) me to leave a comment. I wanted to let you know about a treatment that has helped me heaps with CFS and that I have personally seen excellent, almost miraculous, results with Psoriatic Arthritis. The treatment is called SCENAR Therapy. 

I am a physical therapist and after having excellent personal results with SCENAR I started trying it in my practice. My first real amazing result was with a lady who had psoriatic arthritis. At the time she was suffering with elbow pain on both elbows for over three years. She couldn&#039;t carry bags,do the shopping, etc because it gave her pain. Since I had already tried all the usual physio treatments with her with no success, actually they all stirred up the pain, I asked her if she was willing to try a new therapy. She agreed to and we did four sessions over about three weeks. At that point there was no change and we decided to stop the treatment. Disappointing!

Four weeks later she arrived back in my clinic and told me that for the last two weeks she had been pain-free and able to carry heavy bags, etc. She was stoked and so was I. I have also seen her a few times since over a long period and the pain had never returned. 

Another example that comes to mind is a man with chronic neck problems from P.A.. After a couple of treatments with usual methods we also switched to SCENAR treatment. He improved very quickly, to be pain-free in only a few treatments, with lasting relief.

I have seen this therapy turn around many lives, including mine, and would be keen to help you and your husband learn more about it if you are interested. I thank God that he brought SCENAR into my life and I hope to share that with others.

You can contact me through our blog (actually it&#039;s mainly my wife&#039;s, I&#039;m consulted quite often, but she hasn&#039;t hassled me enough to get me to post on my own yet). Our personal e-mail addresses are on our individual profiles.

Regards,
Craig</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Ashley, </p>
<p>I really understand what it is like to have health problems at the start of your marriage. I had Chronic Fatigue Syndrome for the first 5 years of our marriage. It was also extremely debilitating for long periods, we know what it is like to miss out on many of the &#8216;normal&#8217; activities. God is faithful and it is when you really need him that you learn that you can really trust him in EVERYTHING, as you guys are learning. </p>
<p>My wife saw your post on the Christians with chronic illness carnival and forced (read gently encouraged) me to leave a comment. I wanted to let you know about a treatment that has helped me heaps with CFS and that I have personally seen excellent, almost miraculous, results with Psoriatic Arthritis. The treatment is called SCENAR Therapy. </p>
<p>I am a physical therapist and after having excellent personal results with SCENAR I started trying it in my practice. My first real amazing result was with a lady who had psoriatic arthritis. At the time she was suffering with elbow pain on both elbows for over three years. She couldn&#8217;t carry bags,do the shopping, etc because it gave her pain. Since I had already tried all the usual physio treatments with her with no success, actually they all stirred up the pain, I asked her if she was willing to try a new therapy. She agreed to and we did four sessions over about three weeks. At that point there was no change and we decided to stop the treatment. Disappointing!</p>
<p>Four weeks later she arrived back in my clinic and told me that for the last two weeks she had been pain-free and able to carry heavy bags, etc. She was stoked and so was I. I have also seen her a few times since over a long period and the pain had never returned. </p>
<p>Another example that comes to mind is a man with chronic neck problems from P.A.. After a couple of treatments with usual methods we also switched to SCENAR treatment. He improved very quickly, to be pain-free in only a few treatments, with lasting relief.</p>
<p>I have seen this therapy turn around many lives, including mine, and would be keen to help you and your husband learn more about it if you are interested. I thank God that he brought SCENAR into my life and I hope to share that with others.</p>
<p>You can contact me through our blog (actually it&#8217;s mainly my wife&#8217;s, I&#8217;m consulted quite often, but she hasn&#8217;t hassled me enough to get me to post on my own yet). Our personal e-mail addresses are on our individual profiles.</p>
<p>Regards,<br />
Craig</p>
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		<title>By: Young Wife</title>
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		<dc:creator>Young Wife</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 May 2009 04:28:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank y&#039;all so much for your kind and encouraging words!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank y&#8217;all so much for your kind and encouraging words!</p>
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		<title>By: Debbie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Debbie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 May 2009 01:35:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Ashley, 

I&#039;m not as young as you (I&#039;ve just turned 45) and I haven&#039;t been married, but reading your blog post bought tears to my eyes. I guess I&#039;m one of those proud, self-reliant people, who find it hard to accept help even after living with chronic illness for 14 years.

Thank you for being so open - I know God is going to use you both in ways you cannot even begin to imagine. Keep on writing and sharing!

Debbie :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Ashley, </p>
<p>I&#8217;m not as young as you (I&#8217;ve just turned 45) and I haven&#8217;t been married, but reading your blog post bought tears to my eyes. I guess I&#8217;m one of those proud, self-reliant people, who find it hard to accept help even after living with chronic illness for 14 years.</p>
<p>Thank you for being so open &#8211; I know God is going to use you both in ways you cannot even begin to imagine. Keep on writing and sharing!</p>
<p>Debbie <img src='http://youngwifestale.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Cyndi</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cyndi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 May 2009 22:49:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes, God is already using you!

John 11:4
When he heard this, Jesus said, &quot;This sickness will not end in death. No, it is for God&#039;s glory so that God&#039;s Son may be glorified through it.&quot;

~Cyndi
&lt;a href=&quot;http://warrenfamilylife.blogspot.com/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;God Nuggets Blog&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, God is already using you!</p>
<p>John 11:4<br />
When he heard this, Jesus said, &#8220;This sickness will not end in death. No, it is for God&#8217;s glory so that God&#8217;s Son may be glorified through it.&#8221;</p>
<p>~Cyndi<br />
<a href="http://warrenfamilylife.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">God Nuggets Blog</a></p>
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		<title>By: Jenni Saake - InfertilityMom</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jenni Saake - InfertilityMom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 May 2009 20:20:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>{{{Ashley}}}
Thank you for sharing from your heart.  My husband and I have struggled with chronic illness in marriage for nearly 17 years now, including a journey through infertility, so I especially feel for you in the grief of delayed family growth.  God is still teaching me about graciously asking for and accepting help, but I&#039;m learning that it truly is a blessing to others for them to be able to be used by God to enrich our lives.  May the Lord continue to grow and bless you both through your journey together.

Jenni
http://www.HarvestingHope.blogspot.com</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>{{{Ashley}}}<br />
Thank you for sharing from your heart.  My husband and I have struggled with chronic illness in marriage for nearly 17 years now, including a journey through infertility, so I especially feel for you in the grief of delayed family growth.  God is still teaching me about graciously asking for and accepting help, but I&#8217;m learning that it truly is a blessing to others for them to be able to be used by God to enrich our lives.  May the Lord continue to grow and bless you both through your journey together.</p>
<p>Jenni<br />
<a href="http://www.HarvestingHope.blogspot.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.HarvestingHope.blogspot.com</a></p>
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		<title>By: Lisa notes...</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lisa notes...</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 May 2009 15:49:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ashley,
You are learning maturity beyond your years. God will certainly use you and David in many ways to bring Him glory and give you good things. 

Letting others help you is one way that the Lord is glorified--even though it is a very hard thing for you to do. It is very humbling to have to accept help. I don&#039;t like it either, but it opens up opportunities for others to serve. 

Just remember that even as you are accepting help, YOU are serving and giving as well, and being a blessing to others. 

I pray for your strength and courage in your young marriage. You are a beautiful couple! Please continue to share with us the things you are learning on your journey. It is a gift you are giving to others.

Blessings,
Lisa</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ashley,<br />
You are learning maturity beyond your years. God will certainly use you and David in many ways to bring Him glory and give you good things. </p>
<p>Letting others help you is one way that the Lord is glorified&#8211;even though it is a very hard thing for you to do. It is very humbling to have to accept help. I don&#8217;t like it either, but it opens up opportunities for others to serve. </p>
<p>Just remember that even as you are accepting help, YOU are serving and giving as well, and being a blessing to others. </p>
<p>I pray for your strength and courage in your young marriage. You are a beautiful couple! Please continue to share with us the things you are learning on your journey. It is a gift you are giving to others.</p>
<p>Blessings,<br />
Lisa</p>
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		<title>By: Christians with Chronic Illness Blog Carnival &#8211; #2 &#171; Chronic Illness &#38; Pain Support</title>
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		<dc:creator>Christians with Chronic Illness Blog Carnival &#8211; #2 &#171; Chronic Illness &#38; Pain Support</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 May 2009 04:44:45 +0000</pubDate>
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